What Parents Need to Know
BeReal is a photo-sharing app that prompts users once daily at a random time to post an unfiltered photo within 2 minutes. The app captures using both front and back cameras simultaneously, showing what users are doing and their environment. The concept aims to combat the curated, filtered nature of other social platforms.
Why We Rate It "Caution"
While BeReal's concept is healthier than many alternatives, there are still concerns:
The random timing means your child might be prompted to post during class, in locations you'd prefer they keep private, or in situations that reveal more than intended. Friends-of-friends features can expand visibility beyond close connections. Location data may be captured, and the "unfiltered" nature can sometimes expose embarrassing or inappropriate moments.
Key Concerns at a Glance
Location Exposure: Photos often inadvertently reveal school names, home exteriors, workplace locations, or places your child frequents.
Random Timing: Prompts during school or sensitive times can be disruptive and may capture inappropriate moments.
Background Reveals: The dual-camera feature can accidentally show private spaces, documents, screens, or other people without consent.
Social Pressure: The 2-minute window creates urgency and pressure to post even in inappropriate situations.
Discovery Features: RealMojis, friend suggestions, and "My Friends' Friends" expand the potential audience.
Conversation Starters
"Does the random notification ever come at awkward times?" Opens discussion about timing and what they post.
"What kind of stuff usually shows up in your BeReals?" Helps you understand what they're sharing.
"Do you think about what's in the background before you post?" Builds awareness of unintentional sharing.
"Who can see your BeReals?" Addresses privacy settings.
Quick Safety Wins
Set account to "My Friends" only (not Friends of Friends). Review friend list. Disable location tags. Discuss background awareness before posting.